Things fall apart book review.

Things Fall Apart is a famous and first novel written by Chinua Achebe in 1958. The novel took a wide leap in discussing the Native African culture and how the entries of the whites (missionaries) turned things around. Set in the late 19th century, Things Fall Apart tells the story of Okonkwo, a proud and highly respected Igbo man from Umuofia village. 

Okonkwo accidentally kills his clansman in the novel and is banished from the community.  On his return from seven years of exile, he met the intrusion of the white missionaries and colonial government into his tribal Igbo society. His unwillingness to accept the new life form took another turn in the novel’s pot. 

The book is split into three parts showing the reader the  community way of life before the whites came, the negative effects of colonization on Okonkwo’s tribe and how Christian missionaries work to convert the African population and how it altered the community’s culture. 

I enjoyed reading this book and the African proverbs which I am going to quote.

“ A child can not pay for its mother’s milk”

“ An old woman is always uneasy when dry bones are mentioned in a proverb.” 

“When a man says yes his chi says yes also.”

“Mother is supreme”

Psalm 42


[2] My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. When can I go and meet with God?

[3] My tears have been my food day and night, while people say to me all day long, “Where is your God?”

[4] These things I remember as I pour out my soul: how I used to go to the house of God under the protection of the Mighty One with shouts of joy and praise among the festive throng.

[5] Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God.

[6] My soul is downcast within me; therefore I will remember you from the land of the Jordan, the heights of Hermon—from Mount Mizar.

[7] Deep calls to deep in the roar of your waterfalls; all your waves and breakers have swept over me.

[8] By day the Lord directs his love, at night his song is with me— a prayer to the God of my life.

[9] I say to God my Rock, “Why have you forgotten me? Why must I go about mourning, oppressed by the enemy?”

[10] My bones suffer mortal agony as my foes taunt me, saying to me all day long, “Where is your God?”

[11] Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God.

Amen.

How I spend my time after shifts

List five things you do for fun.

I think the picture below summarise the things I do for fun.

Hobbies

I love sunsets, I chase and wait for them. I like flowers Tulips,roses and every damn beautiful flower. I recently started growing plants, 2 died but baby steps😆👍🏾. Trying out new recipes and creating my own. I bake as-well and play dress up . Lastly I enjoy reading; ummm blogging we still have a long way but we are here now.

Happy heavenly birthday Tari🥹

Tomorrow will be the 20th of January, you would have been 26 years. I mean twenty-six, It’s hard to envisage. You are frozen in my memory at 23. I don’t know how to put down my emotions. Missing you is an understatement. Today everything is an illusion or I am experiencing derealization. A few minutes ago I couldn’t pray, I just said a few words maybe the tears did the praying.

So I just stood in my window and saw this beautiful sunset,

As the sun was setting I remembered the day you left. I remembered the moments we would laugh to the point of gasping for air. I remember the fights about clothes and dishes. I remember the visits to the hospital. I remember us going to the same school and every day you would come to ask for money or food. I remember when you used to spend your busfare for the whole week on a Monday. I remember how you would dream of me whenever I was not okay. I don’t know how to ask for help; you used to do that on my behalf.

Look when I write or talk about you the world gets to know that I  just didn’t lose a sibling, I lost my guardian angel, I lost a  protector and a mouthpiece. I lost someone who absorbed my emotions and helped me get through difficult times.  I hope we will see each other again in a place where clocks don’t tick. I will carry you with me till I see you again. 

Happy heavenly birthday Tari❣️.

Love is in the little things

Can you share a positive example of where you’ve felt loved?

It was in the thought-fullness and the effort. We visited our Pastor for the holidays, I woke up very early and decided to sit in the lounge. I didn’t want to wake everyone so I started reading.

A few minutes later my Pastor came we greeted each other,I didn’t notice when she left the lounge but she came back holding a cup of tea. Black tea with milk and two sugars. How did she know, I wanted to cry I wanted to hug her so tight. It was at that very moment that I missed my mum so much. My mum used to make tea for me and bring it to my room sometimes she would call me then we brew it together.

So this is really the moment I felt loved. I also find happiness in Range rovers too🫢😂.

Nurses don’t play

Do you play in your daily life? What says “playtime” to you?

Is it me who can’t get the question or what🫨. I barely have time to go outside ummm but wait I hate going outside. I don’t have games in my phone. I rarely go out because of my social anxiety. Do we include sleep in our playtime so maybe that’s it.

I think I get it now. I have puzzles for 10 year olds in my house and when I have a lot on my mind I try to play them. But only for a short before my undiagnosed ADHD takes over. In conclusion nothing says “playtime” to me I have to get me a hobby.

1993

Share what you know about the year you were born.

Most important event is me coming to this world. On the 12th to be precise. Other events include Nelson Mandela being awarded the Nobel Prize. This is the year Princess Diana wanted or filed for a divorce and she also withdrew from the public. Not forgetting Notorious drug lord; Pablo Escobar is gunned down by police in Colombia.

We aren’t going to talk about the technology advancement this special year brought.

The only song to sell over a million in 1993 was Whitney Houston ‘ I will always love you’. Another big trend from 1993 was crop tops, that’s why I love them maybe. Lastly Jurassic Park was released. Can’t believe all this happened 30 years. A special year indeed.

Dear Karren,

You are 30 today. Firstly, I want you to know how proud I am of you. You have come so far and overcome countless challenges. The strength and determination you possess is truly inspiring. Thank you for not giving up on your dreams.  Thank you for always rising.

Thirty is not just a milestone; it’s a launchpad for the incredible chapters awaiting you. Stay resilient, stay true to your values, and celebrate your wins, both big and small. Take time to acknowledge your accomplishments and give yourself credit where it is due. Do not be hard on yourself.

12/12/93

However, please remember that life can be unpredictable. It’s important to be gentle with yourself when things don’t go according to plan. Embrace the lessons learned and use them as stepping stones towards personal growth.

Remember that failure is not a reflection of your worth, but rather an opportunity to try again with newfound knowledge. Surround yourself with those who uplift and inspire you, don’t be afraid to let go of what no longer serves your well-being.

So, Liebe Karren, continue on this journey with an open heart and a positive mindset. Embrace the challenges, celebrate the victories, be patient with yourself, and always extend a helping hand to those in need. In your interactions with others, always strive to be friendly and kind.

A smile, a kind word, or a listening ear can make a world of difference to someone in need. Spread positivity wherever you go and be a source of comfort and support for those around you. Remember, a small act of kindness can leave a lasting impact.

May you continue to grow, learn, and thrive. The past 30 years have been great and I wish you nothing but the best this life can give. 

With Endless Love 

Future you